How to prepeare for a commercial BDSM session and how to behave during
Upon recent events I have been thinking on the given subject. First and foremost:
NEVER, EVER come to serve me under the influence. Of anything.
BDSM practices are intense and intoxicating enough on their own. The Dominant uses body cues of the sub to assess the situation. The Dom cannot assess the situation properly if those reactions are distorted by psychoactive substances (such as alcohol, a lot of caffeine, illicit drugs). That ability has been taken away by the sub before the session began. Not only is it disrespectful and irresponsible but also goes against mutual trust which is key in any BDSM practices.