Upon recent events I have been thinking on the given subject. First and foremost:
NEVER, EVER come to serve me under the influence. Of anything.
BDSM practices are intense and intoxicating enough on their own. The Dominant uses body cues of the sub to assess the situation. The Dom cannot assess the situation properly if those reactions are distorted by psychoactive substances (such as alcohol, a lot of caffeine, illicit drugs). That ability has been taken away by the sub before the session began. Not only is it disrespectful and irresponsible but also goes against mutual trust which is key in any BDSM practices.
If you look at it this way, and think of the disappointment you could cause Dom, I’m sure you won’t be tempted to do it. Because of the above reasons, you typing “poppers” in any message or chat with me will mean an instant block. I don’t want anyone on my conscience.
This post is not meant to scare you away, but to make you think. And to counter the stereotype of “since I’m paying to have my fantasies fulfilled, I can do anything”.
It applies to online as well as in person sessions. If I’m not in the room with you and something goes wrong I have no way to help you.
Harness Red Lace Corsette is one of the most popular harnesses among the professional Dommes. I’m sure you’ve seen them on their Insta or Onlyfans feed. Is it worth the hype, tough?
Yes and no.
First of all, as shown on the pictures, soft laces and corset back go wonderfully together with sexy lingerie.It compliments my curves amazingly without the hated rolls effect. As expected, it makes me feel like a sex goddes, so even with the flaw, I’ll describe later, I like it very much.
With all the pros of this harness there is one huge con. Slits in the front panel have no finishing at all. Neither heat/glue nor thread around the edges. They were just cut and left. From my experience you cannot leave them like that because layers will start going apart and the holes will widen and the lace will start tearing. It is almost impossible to use this harness more than once without fixing this problem. I will be contacting the manufacturer in hopes of getting that fixed.
Despite all that the harness gives amazing stability (even during hard fucking). It doesn’t ride up or down nor does it slide sideways at the front. It stays put the whole time and is comfy enough to wear during the whole session not just the fucking part. It doesn’t pinch or dig in. It doesn’t rub my delicate thighs raw as other fabric harnesses tend to do. For health reasons I cannot tighten the leg straps too much and contrary to other harnesses, in this one it hasn’t been a problem. This is a harness for people of my body type – wide hips, big bubble butt. People less endowed in this area might experience sliding down of the back part.
Do I recommend this harness? Yes, if you’ve got a big butt and a bit of patience and sewing skills. Without correcting the front panel you won’t get much play out of it. But if you are willing to put in a bit of time this is a great beginner harness and my favorite fabric strap-on harness on the market.
How many dildos does one have to test to find The One? 15? 50? 150? No, one can be enough.
Blush Helio, an average sized dildo, made of wonderfully plush, dual layer silicone has become our favorite dildo for strapon use. Why? Because it solves EVERY penetration problem that my sub has.
Very delicate, easily irritated throat? Helio goes right in and out, leaving no lingering soreness behind. Yes, after a longer fuck, that’s no longer the case, but with any other dildo, this long throat fuck would be impossible. This dildo is the answer for people who still buy jelly toys because other silicone dildos aren’t soft enough. Well – this one is.
Got a tight-ass for a sub? One that would love to get properly fucked, but spasms on anything wider than two fingers? I’ve got one too and she looves this dildo. It goes in with minimal prep and feels fantastic right from the start. Part of it is because of the fantastic shape and part because of the softness of the head and semi-flexibility of the shaft. “This is the first time my body can enjoy anal just as much as my mind carves it. It’s the best I’ve had in 15 years of my experience with toys and anal” – says my sub. This dildo leaves her butt happy and relaxed, ready for a repeat performance and not irritated.
Low-hanging and sensitive cervix, urethra too close to the vaginal entrance and very, very big pubic symphysis? Those things make hard fucking, especially doggy style hard fucking, almost impossible. Helio shines here as well. It’s soft, plush head doesn’t bruise my sub’s delicate cervix, it caresses it instead.It puts delicious pressure against the g-spot instead of stabbing it. Silky-smooth silicone leaves the urethra happy as well instead of crushing it against the bone.
This is THE dick for people who want it fast and hard and deep, but their body refuses to cooperate. This is THE dick for deep throat and anal training. This is THE dick for people who carve the softness and hardness of human body.
Real Nude Helio is made of platinum cured silicone – it will last for years to come. We can boil it or sanitize it in other ways any time we feel the need to, tough soap and water alone are enough to keep it hygienic (that can’t be said for other soft materials). We can store it however we like, on a pile with other silicone dildos – it won’t melt, it won’t fuze with another dick. Only thing to look out for are our furballs – this kind of silicone is super-biteable.
Of course Helio isn’t a be all and and all of dildos. It’s great in a harness but it won’t provide focused, intense g-spot stimulation that we sometimes crave. It won’t give the feeling of fullness to somebody used to bigger shapes (for that look to Ergo from the same company). But no toy can do it all.
What makes us very happy when writing this review is that, thanks to unique partnership between Blush and LulaPink.pl you can get if for 160PLN. That’s a really good price for silicone and unheard of bargain for dual density silicone at that! I’m all for safe and well-designed toys being affordable, so more people can enjoy them.
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