Upon recent events I have been thinking on the given subject. First and foremost:
NEVER, EVER come to serve me under the influence. Of anything.
BDSM practices are intense and intoxicating enough on their own. The Dominant uses body cues of the sub to assess the situation. The Dom cannot assess the situation properly if those reactions are distorted by psychoactive substances (such as alcohol, a lot of caffeine, illicit drugs). That ability has been taken away by the sub before the session began. Not only is it disrespectful and irresponsible but also goes against mutual trust which is key in any BDSM practices.
If you look at it this way, and think of the disappointment you could cause Dom, I’m sure you won’t be tempted to do it. Because of the above reasons, you typing “poppers” in any message or chat with me will mean an instant block. I don’t want anyone on my conscience.
This post is not meant to scare you away, but to make you think. And to counter the stereotype of “since I’m paying to have my fantasies fulfilled, I can do anything”.
It applies to online as well as in person sessions. If I’m not in the room with you and something goes wrong I have no way to help you.